People say the funniest, weirdest, rudest, and sweetest things when a widow is engaged.

• “I’m so happy for you. You have been through hell and back. What a testament to God’s faithfulness.”
• “HeeJun would  be so proud of you.”
• “I wish I could have two weddings.”
• Man, I can’t even get one ring on my finger and you got two. You must be doing something right.”
• “Maybe my husband will die and I can have another wedding!” (I know, shocked when I heard that one!)
• “You learned so much during this time and will be able to be the wife you always wanted to be. You won’t take anything for granted.You have gotten to truly know yourself and Christ during this time.”
• “You are stealing my memories of HeeJun and I can’t join you on this journey.”

Guess which ones I replied with a “Thanks, I love you” verses a “You’re an IDIOT!”